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Hospital/Dr downplay

"I have seen worse," I have been thr sickest I have ever been this past week with about 8 flair up spots. Some drain some don't ones the side of a golf ball red and inflamed. I was almost septic as well my white count was showing my sign of fighting. I was told by both the Hospital Dr and my Dr on it's not that bad I have seen so much worse. I can't lie I cant stand being downplayed. I am a clean person I use hibiclens 2 times a day because I have to shower 2 times a day. If you dont clean them thoroughly and get the antibiotic cream on them it will get much worse. So thanks Dr's for making me feel invalidated.

  1. My heart goes out to you . I am so very sorry to hear that not just one, but two, doctors invalidated your experience and pain. It is especially hurtful that the people who are supposed to be supporting and helping you are the ones making claims about how bad symptoms are, or are not. I can hear how much pain you have been in this past week and it is understandable how frustrated you're feeling about being downplayed. How are your symptoms currently? Have you been able to get some relief? Sending you gentle hugs. -- Warmly, Christine (Team Member)

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